Book Review: Winning: The Unforgiving Race to Greatness by Tim Grover

Let’s talk about Winning by Tim Grover—a book that pulls no punches and delivers a brutally honest look at what it takes to succeed. Whether you're striving in business, sports, or personal growth, this book isn’t here to tell you it’s easy. In fact, it’s here to tell you the opposite—and why that’s exactly what makes winning so rewarding.
Grover outlines 13 principles that define the relentless mindset needed to reach the top. Drawing on his years of experience training legends like Michael Jordan and Kobe Bryant, he doesn’t just give advice—he serves it up raw. This isn’t your typical motivational fluff. Instead, Grover digs into the reality of greatness: the sacrifices, the discipline, and the grit it demands. He even tackles the uncomfortable truth about success—it’s not a team effort. At its core, winning is deeply personal and often lonely.
For me, one of the standout takeaways is Grover’s emphasis on accountability. He doesn’t sugarcoat it: if you want to win, you have to own every decision, every mistake, and every outcome. No excuses. No blaming others. It’s a mindset shift that might sting, but it’s also empowering once you embrace it.
The tone of the book is intense—like a one-on-one locker room pep talk. Some readers might find it too harsh, but that’s kind of the point. It’s not here to comfort you; it’s here to push you. And that’s what makes it such a powerful read.
If you’re someone who’s serious about stepping up in any area of life, this book is worth your time. Just know that Grover isn’t offering a step-by-step plan or a feel-good narrative. He’s laying out the mindset, plain and simple. The rest? That’s on you.
Winning is not for everyone, and Grover makes no apologies about that. But if you’re ready to face the truth about what it takes to succeed, this book might just change how you approach your goals—and your life.
Would you recommend Winning to others? Drop your thoughts below—I’d love to hear how it resonates with you.